Hi Kendra! My biggest balance struggle is deciding between writing and reading. I want to be a well-read writer and know how important it is to read widely to improve, but I find it hard to set aside my WIP to read, and vise versa. Once I get immersed in one, it’s hard to stop. Any tips for finding a good balance between reading and writing and not feel like you’re falling behind in either?
I get 2 hours a day, 4x a week for my writing, which is great. Only friends and family tend to guilt me into helping out, going to lunch, or getting more involved. Any tips for protecting this sacred and hard earned time?
Tiffany
3 years ago
How many hours do you think an aspiring author should dedicate to their writing every day? Teens, adults, people in or out of school, how many hours is not too much but not too little?
Emma
3 years ago
Hello Kendra! I love coming up with stories, but I tend to get bogged down when writing them and staying on track, or I get distracted by world building/character creation. What are some good ways of keeping yourself disciplined to sitting down and actually writing?
Michelle
3 years ago
Do you have tips for writes who put too much aside for their writing? More specifically not having time for family and friends while juggling a full time job whilst writing 50 hours a week.
Thank you!
How do you set your writing goals? Do you make more long-term goals–like “I want to finish this draft by March”–or more day-to-day goals–“I want to write an hour a day”?
Do you have any advice for writers who have health issues? How can we be effective authors, throughout the process of writing and publishing and marketing, even with our strict energy limitations?
I’m in the process of building a platform that engages with PB families. The hardest part is how to juggle is the 24/7 schedule of social media. Any suggestions on how to pare this down to a couple hours a day so it doesn’t overtake my creative writing (and free) time?
Love your “social media is a child” analogy. I’ll use that perspective. Thank you!
Gwendolyn
3 years ago
Hey!
I have heard people talk about setting up a system of rewards/punishments for achieving or failing to achieve a set goal (like 350 words a day for a month). What are your thoughts on that? If you think that it is a good idea, what sort of reward/punishment would you suggest?
Lisa
3 years ago
Do you think you can overwrite the same project? Typical advice is to stop and move on to something else, but what if the ‘perfectionist’ in you has a hard time letting go? Thanks in advance!
Jasmine
3 years ago
When is it a good time to step away/take a break from your manuscript for a few days?
Thank you!
And as an addendum – it’s easy to decide “I just don’t feel like writing, I’m going to give up an play video games”. At one point do you force yourself to do it anyway? (Is it possible to force creativity?)
EA
3 years ago
Hi Kendra,
I’ve been having a lot of difficulty focusing on my work in the current political climate. Any tips to feel inspired in such bleak times?
Thanks!
This seems to come up a lot, but editing/revising versus writing: What’s the balance? How many projects should be worked on at once, or should I only be focused on one project at a time? How do I know when it’s time to stop revising something and start a new work? Is it possible to spend too much time working on one piece?
How long should I work on my first novel before starting on a new one?
Miranda
3 years ago
You always hear that you aren’t supposed to edit as you write. But I find that editing actually helps give me the push to eke out more word count. Do you think “don’t edit while you write” is a hard and fast rule?
Laurie
3 years ago
What are your feelings on author websites — especially “pre-published”? I’m a full-time professional writer during the day but am trying to transition to children’s writing. And with my limited time, I debate how much time to devote to building a website. Thanks!
jenniferchen0
3 years ago
Hi Kendra:
As a working mom, I’m slowly revising a YA book based on a R&R from an agent (and a few other interested agents). I work full-time as a freelance journalist so I’m juggling writing on deadlines, daycare hours, and revising a book. I try to squeeze in 30 minutes a day to work on the book by eliminating social media and shutting off my email. But I’m still struggling to get this rewrite done. Any suggestions? I tried revising at night after my twins go to bed, but my brain is too tired and I was getting burnt out.
I’d love your suggestions!
Thanks so much,
Jennifer
Hallie
3 years ago
What are your suggestions for balancing researching for one project while editing and marketing another one, but still having other personal obligations that need to be fulfilled?
Like, I’m a high school student, I’m trying to finish editing and Indie publish one book while marketing it, research for a second book, write a short story (that relates to the book I’m researching for) for a contest at school, and make the sketches to give to my best friend for her birthday.
aneeqah
3 years ago
Hi Kendra! Thanks so much for your time. I know social media is a big time distractor for me (it eats up so much of my writing time!), but as a writer, I want to stay connected with the industry and connect with other writers. Do you have any advice for balancing social media time and knowing how much social media is too much?
I didn’t realize this was the same as D Landy– sorry about that!
Jennifer Bushroe
3 years ago
When you’re feeling unmotivated, how do you differentiate between when you need to give yourself tough love and work anyway, vs. when you actually need a break for some self-care?
Gwendolyn
3 years ago
How should you schedule your social media involvement? Your time dedicated to creating an author platform?
Leeann
3 years ago
What if you haven’t been published and people keep asking, when it will happen?
Thank you for being here. How do you determine how much of your personal life you share with the world as an author?…Especially when writing stories that are based on topics close to our hearts, how much do we offer? How much should we hold back?
Rebekah Lowell
Janine
3 years ago
Is there ever a point where you think a writer should really give up? A number of trunked novels/number of years attempted?
jackie
3 years ago
Can you shed any light on how the writing process/time constraints typically change (or need to change) once someone is repped, published, and now working on the 2nd book? The crunch of having high stakes deadlines I know nothing about now may obviously alter my whole process when the time comes.
Katlyn
3 years ago
For writers who work from home and write full time, what is your advice for setting deadlines and being driven without being consumed by the need to succeed? My identity tends to revolve around writing, and I think that contributes to my feeling as though I Have to succeed, and soon, especially since I’ve had the advantage of being supported while i work on my writing full time.
Hi, Kendra! My kids loved Girls Who Code and Don’t Throw It to Mo! Can you offer advice on balancing multiple projects, for example, editing one and drafting another, while maintaining focus and momentum?
because this is such a self motivating career, is there any way in particular that you encourage yourself to get things done?
jackie
3 years ago
What should a timeline probably look like once you finish your first 1-3 drafts alone, and are now ready for CPs, sensitivity readers, and betas? How do you know what to pad the timeline with, or realistically offer people to do their thing so that you can make more edits?
Shanice
3 years ago
Hi! I’m writing my novel for a graduate thesis.
The complicated part is that my thesis requires different things than publication.
For example, I’m trying to be done and have it out for submission by Christmas time.
But, I won’t be able to defend it until April.
How do I balance grad school demands with submission/revision demands?
Lakyn
3 years ago
Are you a morning writer, and if so, do you have any tips on how best to become one? lol
Stephanie
3 years ago
Hi Kendra–How do you balance reading within a genre to stay updated on the market versus reading widely and following your additional reading interests? Thank you!
Flor
3 years ago
My YA manuscript has my MC at age 13 in Chapter 1 but by Chapter 6 she has turned 16 and remains at 16. I’ve been asked repeatedly by agents if it is necessary to have her at ages 13-15 and why not just start her at 16. One of the themes of the story is dealing with internal struggle and I wanted to contrast the MC’s naivety in the earlier years versus the point of no return at 16 in which she has no choice but to take leadership actions. I myself have become weary of the “immediately a badass” type of characters and that’s why my story is structured the way it is. In your opinion, is this a losing battle on my part that I keep this type of structure?
Katelyn
3 years ago
Any suggestions on healthy ways to deal with failure? Say you don’t meet a goal, what’s a good way to get you back on track?
Elisha Jachetti
3 years ago
Hello! What are good day jobs that would keep you as an author at least somewhat involved in the industry, so you are able to network and make money independent of your novels, but also have time to write?
Nathan
3 years ago
Kendra,
This isn’t a question, but I attended several of your sessions at SCBWILA17. I still use the “Meet Your Character” technique I learned from you and reference my notes from those sessions every time I write. I’ve been on a solid path since the summer and know my manuscript is getting stronger and stronger. THANK YOU!
Hi Kendra! Do you have any pointers for dealing with writing burnout?
Hi Kendra! My biggest balance struggle is deciding between writing and reading. I want to be a well-read writer and know how important it is to read widely to improve, but I find it hard to set aside my WIP to read, and vise versa. Once I get immersed in one, it’s hard to stop. Any tips for finding a good balance between reading and writing and not feel like you’re falling behind in either?
I get 2 hours a day, 4x a week for my writing, which is great. Only friends and family tend to guilt me into helping out, going to lunch, or getting more involved. Any tips for protecting this sacred and hard earned time?
How many hours do you think an aspiring author should dedicate to their writing every day? Teens, adults, people in or out of school, how many hours is not too much but not too little?
Hello Kendra! I love coming up with stories, but I tend to get bogged down when writing them and staying on track, or I get distracted by world building/character creation. What are some good ways of keeping yourself disciplined to sitting down and actually writing?
Do you have tips for writes who put too much aside for their writing? More specifically not having time for family and friends while juggling a full time job whilst writing 50 hours a week.
Thank you!
How do you set your writing goals? Do you make more long-term goals–like “I want to finish this draft by March”–or more day-to-day goals–“I want to write an hour a day”?
Do you have any advice for writers who have health issues? How can we be effective authors, throughout the process of writing and publishing and marketing, even with our strict energy limitations?
Hello and thanks for being here!
I’m in the process of building a platform that engages with PB families. The hardest part is how to juggle is the 24/7 schedule of social media. Any suggestions on how to pare this down to a couple hours a day so it doesn’t overtake my creative writing (and free) time?
Love your “social media is a child” analogy. I’ll use that perspective. Thank you!
Hey!
I have heard people talk about setting up a system of rewards/punishments for achieving or failing to achieve a set goal (like 350 words a day for a month). What are your thoughts on that? If you think that it is a good idea, what sort of reward/punishment would you suggest?
Do you think you can overwrite the same project? Typical advice is to stop and move on to something else, but what if the ‘perfectionist’ in you has a hard time letting go? Thanks in advance!
When is it a good time to step away/take a break from your manuscript for a few days?
Thank you!
And as an addendum – it’s easy to decide “I just don’t feel like writing, I’m going to give up an play video games”. At one point do you force yourself to do it anyway? (Is it possible to force creativity?)
Hi Kendra,
I’ve been having a lot of difficulty focusing on my work in the current political climate. Any tips to feel inspired in such bleak times?
Thanks!
Thank you so much, Kendra. Lots to think about.
This seems to come up a lot, but editing/revising versus writing: What’s the balance? How many projects should be worked on at once, or should I only be focused on one project at a time? How do I know when it’s time to stop revising something and start a new work? Is it possible to spend too much time working on one piece?
How long should I work on my first novel before starting on a new one?
You always hear that you aren’t supposed to edit as you write. But I find that editing actually helps give me the push to eke out more word count. Do you think “don’t edit while you write” is a hard and fast rule?
What are your feelings on author websites — especially “pre-published”? I’m a full-time professional writer during the day but am trying to transition to children’s writing. And with my limited time, I debate how much time to devote to building a website. Thanks!
Hi Kendra:
As a working mom, I’m slowly revising a YA book based on a R&R from an agent (and a few other interested agents). I work full-time as a freelance journalist so I’m juggling writing on deadlines, daycare hours, and revising a book. I try to squeeze in 30 minutes a day to work on the book by eliminating social media and shutting off my email. But I’m still struggling to get this rewrite done. Any suggestions? I tried revising at night after my twins go to bed, but my brain is too tired and I was getting burnt out.
I’d love your suggestions!
Thanks so much,
Jennifer
What are your suggestions for balancing researching for one project while editing and marketing another one, but still having other personal obligations that need to be fulfilled?
Like, I’m a high school student, I’m trying to finish editing and Indie publish one book while marketing it, research for a second book, write a short story (that relates to the book I’m researching for) for a contest at school, and make the sketches to give to my best friend for her birthday.
Hi Kendra! Thanks so much for your time. I know social media is a big time distractor for me (it eats up so much of my writing time!), but as a writer, I want to stay connected with the industry and connect with other writers. Do you have any advice for balancing social media time and knowing how much social media is too much?
I didn’t realize this was the same as D Landy– sorry about that!
When you’re feeling unmotivated, how do you differentiate between when you need to give yourself tough love and work anyway, vs. when you actually need a break for some self-care?
How should you schedule your social media involvement? Your time dedicated to creating an author platform?
What if you haven’t been published and people keep asking, when it will happen?
Hi Kendra,
Thank you for being here. How do you determine how much of your personal life you share with the world as an author?…Especially when writing stories that are based on topics close to our hearts, how much do we offer? How much should we hold back?
Rebekah Lowell
Is there ever a point where you think a writer should really give up? A number of trunked novels/number of years attempted?
Can you shed any light on how the writing process/time constraints typically change (or need to change) once someone is repped, published, and now working on the 2nd book? The crunch of having high stakes deadlines I know nothing about now may obviously alter my whole process when the time comes.
For writers who work from home and write full time, what is your advice for setting deadlines and being driven without being consumed by the need to succeed? My identity tends to revolve around writing, and I think that contributes to my feeling as though I Have to succeed, and soon, especially since I’ve had the advantage of being supported while i work on my writing full time.
Hi, Kendra! My kids loved Girls Who Code and Don’t Throw It to Mo! Can you offer advice on balancing multiple projects, for example, editing one and drafting another, while maintaining focus and momentum?
because this is such a self motivating career, is there any way in particular that you encourage yourself to get things done?
What should a timeline probably look like once you finish your first 1-3 drafts alone, and are now ready for CPs, sensitivity readers, and betas? How do you know what to pad the timeline with, or realistically offer people to do their thing so that you can make more edits?
Hi! I’m writing my novel for a graduate thesis.
The complicated part is that my thesis requires different things than publication.
For example, I’m trying to be done and have it out for submission by Christmas time.
But, I won’t be able to defend it until April.
How do I balance grad school demands with submission/revision demands?
Are you a morning writer, and if so, do you have any tips on how best to become one? lol
Hi Kendra–How do you balance reading within a genre to stay updated on the market versus reading widely and following your additional reading interests? Thank you!
My YA manuscript has my MC at age 13 in Chapter 1 but by Chapter 6 she has turned 16 and remains at 16. I’ve been asked repeatedly by agents if it is necessary to have her at ages 13-15 and why not just start her at 16. One of the themes of the story is dealing with internal struggle and I wanted to contrast the MC’s naivety in the earlier years versus the point of no return at 16 in which she has no choice but to take leadership actions. I myself have become weary of the “immediately a badass” type of characters and that’s why my story is structured the way it is. In your opinion, is this a losing battle on my part that I keep this type of structure?
Any suggestions on healthy ways to deal with failure? Say you don’t meet a goal, what’s a good way to get you back on track?
Hello! What are good day jobs that would keep you as an author at least somewhat involved in the industry, so you are able to network and make money independent of your novels, but also have time to write?
Kendra,
This isn’t a question, but I attended several of your sessions at SCBWILA17. I still use the “Meet Your Character” technique I learned from you and reference my notes from those sessions every time I write. I’ve been on a solid path since the summer and know my manuscript is getting stronger and stronger. THANK YOU!
Thank you! This was so helpful and encouraging.
Thank you so much for your time, Kendra!!
Thanks for a great session!